Healthy dom sub relationship
I accidentally crossed paths with my first Dominant online when I was going through a divorce seven years ago. My first thought was to run away fast: He must be some whip-toting freak with a dungeon in his basement. What appeals to me the most is the intense cerebral connection — the mind play and the feelings it conjures in me, sometimes all day long the brain is, after all, the biggest sex organ. The words, the orders, the reprimands, the tone and the downright audacity for him to say it all: Never would I allow anyone else to speak to me in this way, or, over all, to have such deep access into my mind, body and heart. And I hear myself responding in ways that similarly shock me — from mouthy and totally improper to meek and pleasing or with no air in my lungs at all.
Lupita Nyong'o. Age: 30. Sensual, temperamental beauty with amazing forms will be very happy to meet you. A date with me will not leave you indifferent. Affectionate massage will help to relax, oral caress will bring endless pleasure!
In the world there is nothing more submissive and weak than water. Yet for attacking that which is hard and strong nothing can surpass it. This post is meant to compare and contrast with my earlier post, 10 Traits of Powerful People. Paradoxically, submissive people are perhaps the most powerful among us, as you may gather from reading on.
Victoria Justice. Age: 26. Individual personality in perfect shape! I always meet in beautiful lingerie, elegant and rested, ready for sex games and depravity! Full privacy!
There is more to being a Dominant than wearing a title, carrying a crop, giving orders or dressing the part. There is no reason why SL should be any different. Their attitude is brash and rude, their tone frequently crass and their treatment of submissives is generally negative and oppressive. While a Dominant is both authoritarian and powerful, they are ever mindful of those around them, exercising care and consideration for their subs, as well as acting with respect for others regardless of whether they are Dominant or submissive.
That sounds crazy, I know. But we've all heard the phrase "wearing the pants in the relationship" and it makes sense to us, right? That is to say, one person is in charge and the other follows their lead. In a traditional home , it may break down with the wife taking charge of the laundry and children while the husband takes care of the cars and the bills.